Excellent A1 post!

I feel much the same way about most of my 'fellow' pale males who seem to be trying very hard to avoid changing.

You know who Ijeoma Oluo is, right? About three days ago, I read a review of her new book 'Mediocre', The reviewer quoted here relating the response of many pale males to her first book, 'So You Want to Talk About Race'. how many of them feel they can't change and she commented thus on that: "Nobody is more pessimistic about white men than white men." I asked Ms. Oluo if my rage against my fellow whites was useful or more counterproductive in the light of her comment. I've yet to hear back from her If you have any feedback to offer it'll be most welcome. Stay well and keep up the GREAT work!!