I hope we can. This article reminds me of a sexual encounter with a woman who, I guess, had mixed feelings about what we were doing. (This was back in 1989.) But the thing is, just after I entered her, it was as if something in the back of my mind asked, "What are we doing here?" Not something I expected and, of course, I had no idea what to do with that, so I just kept on down the old jism trail, if you will.

We need to teach our young men that male sexuality has its areas of complexity as well as female sexuality. We also need to teach them to pay attention to such 'promptings' as I mention here.