Maybe more men need to be more honest about what sex probably turns out to be (overall) for a good many men (including, so far, this writer). That is....(drumroll)...nowhere near what it's cracked up to be! So far as i know, I am the third generation of men in my family for whom that's been true!

Maybe then they'd care a lot less about getting laid, which, unless it is part of a healthy and close intimacy, is, frankly, d****d hollow and part of such a post-coital feeling is feeling like one's stomach is coated with cold liquid mercury. Bleah!