Not to punish women for HAVING sex, but to punish them for ENJOYING it! I think a lot of these bastards are sadists who would rather have women pleading, "No, no, NO" all the way through the fuck and want to think of their cumming as a sort of 'victory' over the women. For them, sex is about power, and ONLY about power--'love' is only a mask for them, and more and more they don't even bother with putting it on. Literally.