Stoltenberg is right about most things but at the very end he stumbles when he writes, 'then, in effect, men will no longer exist.' Like many folks, he seems to confuse healthy manhood with toxic masculinity. I might suggest those two are mutually exclusive, but I'm not sure. I am sure about this much: only these three things, all together, make an AMH (Adult male hominid) into a man: integrity, responsibility and courtesy. That's all.